After the Pōwhiri: Some Do’s and Don’ts.
Tēnā tātou Ngāti Meta Whenua whānui.
Introduction.
Let’s look at some details to be aware of after the pōwhiri has concluded at a metawhenua virtual marae or other marae you’re likely to attend.
After experiencing the ceremony of the pōwhiri, there are several customs and protocols to observe, reflecting the traditions and values of the Māori people. In the wharekai (dining room), engaging in hand washing is a customary practice, before partaking in a communal meal. It is a space where respect and politeness are paramount, with elders (kaumātua) given precedence in partaking meals, and a karakia (grace) said before consuming food to offer thanks and invoke blessings.
Manuhiri (visitors) are called in to partake in the meal following traditional protocols, with specific orders of precedence indicated by the person responsible for calling individuals in for food. Many actions within the wharekai carry significance, from refraining from passing food over a person's head to avoiding sitting on tables, each considered gestures of respect or disrespect.
Reverence in the Wharenui
The wharenui, or the meeting house, is more than just a physical structure within the marae; it is a space that embodies the spiritual and cultural essence of the Māori people. It is a place where ancestors are remembered, where important discussions occur, and where the community comes together to celebrate and to mourn. Entering this space is entering a realm where action is imbued with meaning and respect.
Removing shoes before stepping into the wharenui is very important. It is a symbolic gesture that honours the sanctity of the space and keeps dirt off of the carpets.
Within the wharenui, the arrangement of sleeping accommodations is a reflection of the communal living and shared responsibilities inherent in Māori culture.
Consuming food or drink within the wharenui is strictly prohibited. It is a gesture of respect to the space, the ancestors and the spiritual essence of the wharenui, ensuring that the purity of the space is maintained. It is also a reminder of the importance of mindfulness and presence in a place where action has spiritual implications. Stepping over individuals or sitting on pillows within the wharenui is considered impolite and disrespectful. It is about maintaining a balance, a harmonious relationship with one another within the wharenui.
Understanding Kawa and Tikanga: A Journey of Learning and Respect
Every marae has its unique kawa (protocols) and tikanga (rules), reflecting the diversity within the unity of Māori culture. Understanding and respecting these customs is not just about following rules; it’s about immersing oneself in the rich tapestry of Māori values and traditions. The best advice for anyone wishing to navigate these traditions with respect and understanding is to inquire about the local people's expectations and to approach every interaction with an open heart and a willing mind, ready to learn and embrace the beautiful complexity of Māori culture.
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